Even in these modern times, women still dream of finding their prince charming and being carried off into forever by their one true love. The reality, however, is that not every guy that walks into the room and flashes his dazzling smile is a gallant prince. The fairy tale dream can easily turn into a nightmare if you do not know how to tell good guys from players in the dating game. You have to know how to play and win the dating game; all these, of course, while having fun and enjoying yourself.
To tell the good guys from the bad guys, here are red flags that you should watch out for:
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Huffing, puffing, and ego-tripping – any guy who is so full of himself cannot be any good. Silence sometimes speaks volumes. A man’s most praise-worthy assets will shine without him having to huff and puff about them. Boastful and egotistical men are not capable of loving anyone else more than they love themselves.
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Too fast, too soon – glib tongues have a way of buttering you up until you are as giddy as a teenager on her first date with her crush. Be wary of a guy’s real intentions especially when he is too forward. A guy who, on your first date, tells you that you are the best thing that happened to him is definitely playing you. Check the body language too for signs that he just wants to get into your pants sooner rather than later.

The Dating Game
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Liar, liar, pants on fire – men who do not think that honesty is always the best policy in dating is not worthy of your trust. Someone who lies about small things could also lie about big things. A good man worthy of considering as your beau should not have to lie to you about anything. Players, on the other hand, are often experts at lying about different things – you’ll never be sure if they are telling the truth about how your hair looks or how many girlfriends they have had.
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History repeats itself – boys will be boys. One telling characteristic of players is leaving a trail of broken hearts, or worse, having children with different women. This could mean that he is a boy who simply wants to keep playing and skirting responsibilities. You do not want to end up being his latest playmate unless you are willing to become part of his history of conquests too.
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Birds of the same feather flock together – tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are. Players hang around with players. Even at the risk of being labelled as judgemental, you should guard yourself against these men. Friends who are players are not good influences. You also do not want these kinds of friends taking jabs at the relationship that you want to build. Besides, you do not want to get involved in all the drama and horror of the exploits of your man’s friends.

Honesty is the best policy when it comes to Online dating
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Secret trysts – if a man is overly secretive about your dates, he could be stringing you along with other girls. Or, he might not be serious enough about you. It might be too soon for you to meet his folks on your first date. But, you should at least meet his friends after a few dates. Going out with the gang will give you a better perspective of his “real” personality. When you and your good guy decide that you want to take your relationship to the next level, it is reasonable for you to expect him to introduce you to his family.







